Off To College: One Thing You Can't Afford To Leave Behind
Have you looked at the calendar today? Did you notice that there are only 5 more squares in July?
Five days before August hits in all it’s hot, busy, back-to-school fury.
For some, the conclusion of summer means cramming in a few more beach days, one more camping trip, or one more theme park adventure. For others, it means cranking through just a couple more weeks of longer-than-usual work days to save up for the fall semester.
Emotions range from excitement to dread and everything in between… possibly ricocheting between the two extremes like an out-of-control bouncy-ball!
If you are beginning your freshman year at college, you are getting ready to launch out on your own. This is true for both commuter students and campus residents. While the change is more drastic when a student actually “moves out” for college, commuters also experiences a detachment from what (up until now) has been their typical family schedule. This is a necessary, even healthy, part of the process of growing up and morphing into adulthood!
Naturally, becoming immersed in college will mean you become a bit less involved in life outside of college – especially as a campus resident. Here at Trinity Baptist College, we encourage you to take full advantage of the spiritual culture of our campus by attending chapels and Bible studies and develop strong relationships by participating in activities and athletic events. College can be so much more than an academic education if you allow it to be. It can be the place where you meet life-long friends and make important connections that impact your life long after graduation.
There is a delicate balance, however, between full involvement in your college life and maintaining honest communication with family and mentors back home. You may not grasp the importance of this now, but believe it – you need to keep in touch! And not just because your family loves you and wants to hear from you! (Although that is a very valid reason, and one you need to remember!)
There is another — deeper — reason. You will need advice. No matter how old you get or now experienced or mature – you will always need someone to speak into your life and offer a different perspective.
Proverbs 11:14 – Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.
Proverbs 19:20 – Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.
Embracing your independence without dismissing the family members, friends, and mentors who have had a positive influence in your life before college is a tricky but important lesson to learn. They are familiar with your background. They have witnessed your strengths and weaknesses first hand and know you better than anyone on campus. They can see how your struggles, triumphs, fears, and dreams make you unique. They also can see your potential more clearly than most and genuinely desire your success.
Eventually, your new professors, friends, and mentors will come to know you as well. They will hopefully speak into your life with wisdom and help you mature as a person. But view these new influences as an addition to your support system instead of a replacement for what you already have in your parents and spiritual mentors.
Getting to college is a milestone to be proud of, certainly. But don’t forget the valuable advice and support that got you to this point! You can’t afford to leave behind the wisdom and perspective that has been instrumental to your success so far!
Above all, don’t distance yourself from the ultimate source of wisdom for your life – God and His Word. Even if all others fail you or steer you wrong, His wisdom transcends all.
Proverbs 1:7 – The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
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